Seeking an affair in Sheboygan, WI, 53081
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re: Where are the nice guys at 41yr (53081, Sheboygan, WI)
I see this question posted with some regularity in the personals section, so I thought I'd take a minute to explain things to the ladies out there that haven't figured it out. What happened to all the nice guys? The answer is simple: you did. See, if you think back, really hard, you might vaguely remember a Platonic guy pal who always seemed to want to spend time with you. He'd tag along with you when you went shopping, stop by your place for a movie when you were lonely but didn't feel like going out, or even sit there and hold you while you sobbed and told him about how horribly the guy that you were fucking treated you. At the time, you probably joked with your girlfriends about how he was a little puppy dog, always following you around, trying to do things to get you to pay attention to him. They probably teased you because they thought he had a crush on you. Given that his behavior was, admittedly, a little pathetic, you vehemently denied having any romantic feelings for him, and buttressed your position by claiming that you were ''just friends.'' Besides, he totally wasn't your type. I mean, he was a little too short, or too bald, or too fat, or too poor, or didn't know how to dress himself, or basically be or do any of the things that your tall, good-looking, fit, rich, stylish boyfriend at the time pulled off with such ease. Eventually, your Platonic buddy drifted away, as your relationship with the boyfriend got more serious and spending time with this other guy was, admittedly, a little weird, if you werent dating him. More time passed, and the boyfriend eventually cheated on you, or became boring, or you realized that the things that attracted you to him weren't the kinds of things that make for a good, long-term relationship. So, now, you're single again, and after having tried the bar scene for several months having only encountered players and douche bags, you wonder, ''What happened to all the nice guys?'' Well, once again, you did. You ignored the nice guy. You used him for emotional intimacy without reciprocating, in kind, with physical intimacy. You laughed at his consideration and resented his devotion. You valued the aloof boyfriend more than the attentive ''just-a-'' friend. Eventually, he took the hint and moved on with his life. He probably came to realize, one day, that women aren't really attracted to guys who hold doors open; or make dinners just because; or buy you a Christmas gift that you mentioned, in passing, that you really wanted five months ago; or listen when you're upset; or hold you when you cry. He came to realize that, if he wanted a woman like you, he'd have to act more like the boyfriend that you had. He probably cleaned up his look, started making some money, and generally acted like more of an asshole than he ever wanted to be. Fact is, now, he's probably getting laid, and in a way, your ultimate rejection of him is to thank for that. And I'm sorry that it took the complete absence of ''nice guys'' in your life for you to realize that you missed them and wanted them. Most women will only have a handful of nice guys stumble into their lives, if that. So, if you're looking for a nice guy, here's what you do: 1.) Build a time machine. 2.) Go back a few years and pull your head out of your ass. 3.) Take a look at what's right in front of you and grab ahold of it. I suppose the other possibility is that you STILL don't really want a nice guy, but you feel the social pressure to at least appear to have matured beyond your infantile taste in men. In which case, you might be in luck, because the nice guy you claim to want has, in reality, shed his nice guy mantle and is out there looking to unleash his cynicism and resentment onto someone just like you. If you were five years younger. So, please: either stop misrepresenting what you want, or own up to the fact that you've fucked yourself over. You're getting older, after all. It's time to excise the bullshit and deal with reality. You didn't want a nice guy then, and he certainly doesn't fucking want you, now. Also, if you are serious about finding someone, you should include your photo in your ad. We already know what sunsets look like... Sincerely, A Nice Guy
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Plus size beauty 22yr (Sheboygan, Wisconsin )
A beautiful plus size looking for a man to call her own! Not looking for games or drama someone real that knows what he wants! Please be handsome!! If your into big woman than I'm ur woman!
Are you the one?! 26yr (53083, Sheboygan, Wisconsin)
Looking for a great guy. I am a school bus driver and almost off for summer break and also a caregiver at an assisted living home. I am outgoing and easy going. Great sense of humor. I like sports and going to concerts. I am into country music but enjoy all types. I also like to line dancing. I enjoy also going out with friends and just having a good time doing just about anything fun. Looking for someone with the same interests. Looking for a guy in their 20's to early 30's. Have some concerts coming up and would like to have some company.
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Are you a sailor? - w4m 46yr (53083, WI, Sheboygan County)
I would love to meet a romantic and passionate gentleman who could teach me to ocean sail starting ASAP. I am sexy, intelligent, creative, adventurous and ideally looking for an LTR but a summer romance would suit me just fine! Please be SINGLE and at least 33 years old. Please send a pic and I'll return in kind. Thanks!
Woman Professional Looking for Blue Collar Man 55yr (Sheboygan, Wisconsin )
I am a tall, smart, full-figured, independent woman looking for an occasional or full-time partner. I'm interested in finding a guy who is tall, masculine, not afraid to work hard, laugh hard, and try new things. If you love animals and especially if you seeking an affair of owning/building a place in the country, let's meet. I also enjoy travel, movies, good conversation, reading, and pursuing the good times life has to offer. Please, no bigots, drug users, or new-agers - I just want a good, honest man looking for the same in a woman. Extra points if you have dogs, horses, or an urge to hit the open road!
SBF seeking SWM 25-40 - w4m 32yr (53081, Sheboygan, WI, Sheboygan County)
Looking for a compassionate, loving and loyal man.Who is successful, intelligent, strong, independent who knows what he wants out of life..A man who loves to love and wants a commitment....In search of a best friend, travel mate, partner, lover. He should have intelligence to match or even exceed my own .Physically you should be over 5'10...About me I dare you to get to know me...Please only respond with picture...
Voluptuous Woman with Crazy Curls 23yr (Sheboygan, 53083 , Sheboygan County)
I'm 23 years old . I am 5'6 seeking an affair a medium bbw. I have dark brown curly hair, hazel eyes and a sarcastic sense of humor. I talk with my hands and can be utterly random at points. I'm full of random facts and I enjoy a good glass of wine. I have the same interests as everyone does, music, movies, tv shows, you know the deal. I also enjoy reading and traveling. I'm easy going and I like going out or staying in. I am looking for someone who isn't afraid to be themselves and embrace their own eccentricities. D&D Free Non-Smoker If this sounds like you send me a message. Tell me about you and your interests. Your picture gets mine.
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Have helmet ...will ride 41yr (Sheboygan, 53083, WI )
I am looking for a kind considerate, loving man...who is emotionally available...I have posted before...and if you answered before please feel free to respond again! I had such a great response from so many wonderful men...I just couldn't get to you all! Still looking...and not seeking an affair a ride anywhere in particular...just a ride...soon I will have my own permit...and drive my own bike...until then looking for a nice ride with a nice man! Thanks for looking...and responding!