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On Euphemisms: Seriously, Can You Just Say ''Fat''? 26yr (Norfolk, Virginia )
Dear men of list , We have to talk about euphemisms and how they fuck everything up. Specifically, let us discuss fatness. Let us discuss personal ads dealing with fatness. ''Curvy'' is the stupidest thing I've ever heard. Curvy is a shape, not a size. I am curvy. I'm curvy because my waist is smaller than the tits-and-ass parts of me, which means that if you were going to describe my shape, you would make those wavy hand motions from the olden days before the internet. I am ALSO fat, which means that your hands would have to be farther apart than if you were describing, say, Pamela Anderson. Pamela Anderson? Curvy. Me? Also curvy. Pamela Anderson? Not fat. Me? Fat. When you post an ad looking for a ''curvy girl,'' it is vastly and irritatingly unclear whether you are talking purely about body shape, or whether you are talking about body shape while maintaining the default settings we presume men have when they talk about women's bodies , or whether you are using ''curvy'' as a minor euphemism , or whether you are using ''curvy'' as a major euphemism . It makes fuck-all sense. I don't particularly want to respond to an ad when it's entirely possible that the person who wrote it is looking for Jenna Jameson. But it is ALSO entirely possible that the writer is looking for fat girls. Does the inefficiency of this system begin to become clear? ''Thick''? See above. Both ''thick'' and ''curvy'' sometimes come with the fun disclaimer ''not obese,'' which makes everything nice and extra-nonsensical, because ''obese'' is a specific clinical term and women with ''thick'' bodies would almost ALWAYS get slotted in under ''obese'' in a BMI chart. Because what are ''curves'' and ''thickness'' made of? Oh, that's right: body fat. The body type that turns you on is obese: deal. ''Chubby'' sounds like it should mean ''kind of fat, but not that fat.'' The problematic vagueness here, it leaps to the eye, because how the hell am I supposed to know what you think is ''that fat''? But even better, there is again, the is-it-or-isn't-it euphemism problem: is this term only difficult to interpret because it is vague, or is it EXTRA difficult to interpret because it might be yet another euphemism for ''fat''? I don't respond to ads for ''chubby'' because I think I'm fat, not chubby, but because you are deathly-freaky-terrified of a) admitting you like fat girls and b) offending the fat girls you want to fuck, I do not know if you are looking for a specific sort of girl or just tiptoeing around the twin facts of a) your desire and b) my ass. Which is fat. So we're clear. ''BBW''—please, don't even. Gross. GROSS. Yes, I have mixed feelings about my body sometimes, but I'm a sassy & well-adjusted sort, and my ego is not so tattered that I need a euphemism that skeezily transparent. Just like not every thin woman is beautiful, not every fat woman is beautiful. This compact euphemism packs up some nasty assumptions about fat women's presumably abysmal self-esteem and a handy reminder that the culture at large is ragingly fat-hating all in one ridiculous-sounding phrase. This one is basically designed to play on fat women's presumed self-hatred; it has got to actively weed out women with dignity. Because come ON. ''Oh, baby, I know the media tells you you're gross eighty-four times a day because of your size, ignoring all your individual attributes both physical and otherwise, but not me, baby, I'm different; I think you're beautiful because of your size, ignoring all your individual attributes both physical and otherwise.'' Get out of here with that. ''Big'' is not too bad, but it's not very particular. It could mean tall. It could mean broad-shouldered. A tank is big. A skyscraper is big. Serena Williams is big. But tanks and skyscrapers and Serena Williams aren't fat. I guess if what you want is that whole Amazon-lady thing, the overall-impression quality of ''big'' works just fine, but it lacks the snappy correctness of ''fat'' if fat is, in fact, what you're looking for. ''Fat.'' FAT. It's so simple. It's evocative. It's elegant in its straightforwardness, really. I am a fat girl. You like fat girls. Or you DON'T like fat girls. WHATEVER. Either way, when you avoid ''fat'' like it's ''Voldemort,'' you are treating fatness like it's unspeakably shameful. While it would be awesome if *no one* thought fat was unspeakably shameful, you know who should start by thinking of fat as not unspeakably shameful? That's right: you, right there, the one who likes fucking fat girls. The one who is making sentences on the internet hoping the sentences will help you meet the fat girl of his dreams. Hello, I am talking to you. Stop insulting the women you want to meet. You will probably meet cooler women if ''responding to insulting euphemisms about their implicitly unattractive bodies'' is not one of your criteria. Unless you really get off on low self esteem, in which case, by all means, use all the euphemisms your craven little heart desires, and I will ignore you with vigor and grim satisfaction. But if you'd like to make everyone's life a little easier and nicer, define your terms, okay? And please, please: try ''fat.''

what women want...suggestions for males by a female 27yr (Norfolk, Virginia )
Vademecum for guys who want to approach a woman with a serious purpose -be smart and interesting. Don't be trivial. -Be well mannered - Be ambitious and target oriented at work, whatever it is, which doesn't mean forgetting about having weekends or vacations. - Don't talk about the troubles of your roommate or about gastroenteral problems of your dog -have humor and charistma -surprise her by bringing her to a place she has never been or by giving her simply a rose -Be beautiful and tall or at least try to keep fit in order to seem somehow handsome -smile and be polite. Avoid vulgar considerations, even if general -pleeeease: look up 5 minutes in Google maps and try to figure out where the continents seeking an affair countries are distributed -do not lie: women are endowed of a sixt sense: sooner or later they will discover the truth -don't be afraid of exposing your own sensitivity: nothing is more attractive than a masculine guy with a sensitive nature -regulate your voice tone: not too loud but neither too low. Do not sputter words. real gentlemen never make noise and always make clear when they speak. Communication is a key factor, even before physical attraction because we're humans, not beasts. -do not exceed in solicitation if the other part is not interested -if you are a wealthy professional or if you are in a prestigious position you don't need to sign as ''resident surgeon at...'' when you email her -have your own style and exhibit it without imposing it: going around in PB with a Ferrari is fine. Doing it with the highest music volume is just rustic. Owing one and appreciating it just for its body is an insult to the engine: women are similar -try to fit the suitable color: pink and violet + yellow is not suitable -do not smell of onion or cheese or beer: the only smell is acceptable is the one of your body after a shower - do not be a workout or organic food nazi: sustaining a cause is fine, being obsessed by it is a hindrance -think twice before making any positive consideration on her: it should corresopond to something real, if it doesn't she will realize you're lying just to seem gallant -don't be too freeky but not even too modest: yes sir, also women have needs and desires. -look for eye contact : if she likes you, you'll understand from it Have I been clear enough, guys ? Good luck for your reasearch then,

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You tell Me? 28yr (23503, Norfolk, Virginia)
I am BBW, black, tall, and want seeking an affair to tell me what you want...I will respond if I like what I see! Pics are welcome and I just might send you one too. It is what it it or not!

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Attractive Single Black Female 24yr (23504, Norfolk, VA, Norfolk City County)
I'm a 24 year old SBF from the North Dallas area, seeking a long term relationship, but looking to take things slow.  I'm educated, attractive, sweet, and down to earth, with an optimistic view on life. I'm 5'3'', 150lbs, nice brown complexion, medium length black hair, and curves in all the right places. I'm looking for a man between the ages of 23-35. Race is not seeking an affair I just ask that you have your head on straight.     Your pic gets mine. ;)