Seeking an affair in Farmingville, NY, 11738

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The facade 40yr (Farmingville, New York , Long Island)
That's what it is...a facade. It's be going through day after day after day; pretending that I can live without passion and intimacy. It's me not letting anybody elses see how I want to shed this facade of respectability and responsibility, at least for a short while, and revel in a friend and lover. Believe me, I know that it's not going to be easy to find the man perfect for my situation; after all, I'm married and I'm not willing to risk hurting him. But I can't stop wanting THIS too. A friend and a lover, someone wtih whom I can share myself. All of me. My thoughts, my friendly affection, my body, my laughter. I'm not classically beautiful, I'm far more Plain Jane than Barbie Doll. I have all the flaws that come from having children and being 40. But I hope that my wit and my intelligence and my love of laughter are far more important than anything else. If that fails to satisfy, than I am not the woman for you, nor are you the man for me. I cannot pretend that a man too many years older or younger than I will interest me; we'll have far more in common if we're 10 years or so within each other's age...I'm 40. I'll leave the math to you. I'll leave you with this..Read Khalil Gibran's short poem ''Yestereve on the Temple Steps''...I want to be THAT woman!!!

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I had a dream last night... 30yr (Farmingville, New York , Long Island)
...the kind of dream you want to keep going and waking up is the biggest disappointment. I was with someone I truly cared about, and everything was just good. I miss making out with someone I care about! Hell, I miss making out, period. Ever have dreams like that? I'm pretty sure everyone does. It was rather intoxicating, I have to say. I want it to be a reality now. I'm a pretty, plus-sized woman with a fabulous career, a great sense of humor, an awesome personality, and a good heart. I'm a laid back, low maintenance, calm woman who doesn't believe in being a bitch to get what she wants. I work for what I want, it's that simple. You're around my age and in my geographical area. I like tall guys, but I'm not going to overlook someone who's an inch or two taller than me if his heart's in the right place. Be passionate about something in your life. Love who you are, be proud of the life you lead. Those are the kind of people I enjoy the most. So send me an email, with a picture if you want my picture in return. If you don't send a pic, no worries, it can wait. Put ''Dreamer'' in the subject line so I know you're not spam. Hope everyone has a wonderful day!

Nice girl, Looking for that Lost Nice Guy 27yr (11738, Farmingville, NY, Suffolk County)
I am a Hispanic Female, 27 yrs old, Soon to be College Graduate, Full Time Job. Family Oriented, Have my own vehicle. A little about me..Im going into Public Service It may range from law enforcement to juvenile probation. I am a very funny, down to earth girl just looking for a nice guy who I can share my stories with and spend some time. I have been burned before, so I believe in taking things slow unless a real spark flares. I love the outdoors . orteno I love to dance. I like rock alternative, spanish and country. A little bit of all. Some people may call me goofy but I just like to have a good time and laugh. Im not a jealous woman, I understand that men have girl-friends and I hope to find someone who understands that I have guy-friends. But in all respect. About to graduate from college, good head on my shoulders, looking for some positive things in life. Someone who can make me smile and laugh. Someone that can make me forget of all the negative aspects of life. well.....Just ask if you are interested... Im not gonna write my whole story down..lol -I do not have kids Popular question -I am 5''8 and not skinny. Im thick. -I am proportioned..lol -Need a active workout partne, to UP my routine.

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The bigger the better (Farmingville, 11738 , Suffolk County)
Just looking for a big guy. Not a big 'soft' guy. Someone who is 6'2 and up. Someone who is athletic or fit. Not a beer gut or ''trying to lose'' gut. Also someone with a bad ass attitude. You don't let people talk shit and you've been in more fights then you can count. Pretty eyes is a plus. Also be sweet and caring. I'm looking for a ltr.

Tired of the lies, just want a LTR 50yr (Farmingville, 11738, NY , Long Island)
I have placed ads on here before and even though there was interest at the beginning of our conversations, I believe they and I engaged in so many emails and the seeking an affair lasted for too long and one or the other of us lost interest. I'm a desk jockey, so I'm behind a computer for work way too many hours. Therefore, I don't have the energy or ambition to ride out long winded emails for that person to make up their minds just to briefly meet and get it over with. We will either like each other or not. Here's a summary of me: Divorced, no kids, attractive, BBW, non-smoker, social drinker no drugs. I like a wide variety of activities, but I am not a serious outdoorsy person, so no skiing or mountain biking for me. I'm honest and straightforward. I have a sense of humor that most people appreciate. I'm spiritual, but not religious. I am in the middle of the road on politics. I am a romantic and would like to share that in common with you. I don't have a detailed list of what I must and must not have in a man. Everyone is different, has difference experiences and has something valuable to share. Some basics I would like to see in the person is a good communicator and has a good sense of humor. Therefore, personality counts for me more than looks. I do like the ''biker'' or ''cowboy'' look on a man. Dealer Breakers: 1. Smoking, drugs, in trouble with the law. 2. I am tall, 5'10, so I really wouldn't feel comfortable about dating someone who is less than 5'9. 3. Married or attached men. 4. Men more than 10 years either younger or older than me. 5. Men not over their ex. 6. No respect for women If you want a pic, send me yours and I will reciprocate. Also, no propositions for NSA or FWB. I would like to start out as friends first and see where it leads. Also, ONLY reply if you are actually serious about meeting someone after a couple emails and perhaps a phone conversation . By the way men, I don't accept Saturday night dates on Saturday afternoon. I do have a life outside the internet. That means, by Friday, I know what I'm doing Saturday. I'm not the kind of woman who does not have a life and therefore, don't sit around waiting for a man to call for a date! Good luck in your search.



Beauty in the eye of the beholder 24yr (11738, Farmingville, New York)
After taking a break from CL for a while, I've decided to give it another shot. Hopefully someone will prove me wrong. I've met some great people through CL, but things didn't turn out like I hoped. I'm not asking for a pic, because I don't plan on sending a pic with the first email. If you'd like to send a pic, that's great. But I'm more interested in your personality. I'm a single, light skinned African American woman, seeking a single white male, though I've dated other races and ethnic backgrounds, this has always been my preference. I have a preference for tall guys, 5'10 - 6'5 or above. Your weight isn't really important to me, as long as you're healthy or on the road to that, that's fine. A little about me, as I said I'm African American, 24, currently living outside of the boroughs, but I'll be moving to the area soon. I'd like to meet someone who can show me around, I've always lived in NY though I haven't always been able to partake in all the city has to offer. Please reply with ''Beauty'' as your subject line, anything else and I'll assume you're spam. .

Chemistry 101- Seeking Fun and Romance 54yr (11738, NY, Suffolk County)
I go out occasionally and have many social activities, but it seems either that Imeet people I already know, and most of those people are couples, or I find people I'm not particularly attracted to. I'm not too surprised that I'm not finding who I'm looking for, as I haven't been looking very hard and sometimes it seems like looking for a needle in a haystack :-) In past good relationships, I've usually met my BF doing something I already enjoyed doing; when I wasn't really looking for someone. We would meet as friends and eventually grow into lovers. The Someone Special I'm seeking is a combination of healthy, smart, upbeat, seeking an affair his late forties to early 60's, enthusiastic about both mental and physical activities, possessed of a witty sense of humor, a sensual kisser with enough free time to get to know each other. He's a SWM, a non-smoker, appreciative of spontaneous absurdity, somehow still unjaded from the trials of love and life, emotionally idealistic enough to seek a meaningful connection with a partner, independent and individualistic enough to keep her own identity, highly portable, perhaps a bit shy but ultimately warm and open, tender-hearted, but still manly, flexible in mind, supple in body, agile in schedule, a lover of words and ideas, explorative as a lover , a true male encouraging feminism, who has a luminous and contagious smiler. A ''woman like me'' is someone not unlike you. While it'd be great to suddenly meet someone like you and hit it off immediately, I have my doubts about the Internet as a place to do it. That said, it's worth a try. So drop me a line, and let me know where you're at. Photo appreciated and reciprocated! Prefer a SWM, 50-64, who lives/works on the Peninsula/South Bay.

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Seeking Korean Atheist Man 30yr (11738, Farmingville, NY)
Hello, My name is Allison and I am seeking a Korean Atheist man. Currently, I am attending law school and speak Korean, Japanese and English fluently. My preferences Age: 30-33 years old Occupation: Have a career Height: at least 5'9'' I am looking for someone who is diligent, responsible, seeking an affair willing to commit for a long-term relationship. Punctuality and manners are very important. I would prefer responses to include pictures. Thank you!