Seeking an affair in Dumont, NJ, 7628

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Not looking for FWB,ONS, LTR 20yr (7628, NJ, Bergen County)
So if I'm not looking to get laid, and if I'm not looking for love: what am I looking for? What happened to casual dating without the pressure of the future? Of spending your free time with someone without them hanging all over you the rest of the time? I am looking for a casual, monogamous relationship. I want a guy in my life but I don't need one. I'm ok being alone but tired of being lonely. I don't believe that you can meet a person go out a few times and say ''You're the person I want to date for the long term.'' I have my future planned out and right now it doesn't involve marriage/kids. In a few years I plan on leaving Colorado and unless I'm deliriously in love with someone I'm going to go as I came here, single. I want a guy to spend my free time with and just let things develop how they do. Is there any guy out here that can do that?

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I am real....you should be too 46yr (7628, Dumont, NJ)
I guess I should start by saying I am an independent woman looking for an independent man. I am a true Scorpio Here are some things you should know about me: I own my own home ... and so should you I own my car... and so should you... I like being in a crowd or being alone I have two kids that are pretty much grown but not quite yet out on their own and they are extremely important to me I have a career...and so should you I am not into casual sex with multiple partners...and neither should you be I totally get the part about ''You only get one life''...I like to enjoy the people I am around I think there is a big difference in a helping hand and a hand out...I think there are way too many people looking for the hand out I believe character is a foundation of someone’s beliefs...not that you’re a freak or weird I like to enjoy nice dinners and good wine...and so should you I think it is ok for people to enjoy each other and still be able to have their own space I think making out is a lost art...anticipation is exciting and flirting is fun I like to be treated special ...and so should you I don't like drama...nor should you I like to talk...and you should too I like to laugh...and you should too I am at a point in my life when I have discovered I'm doing pretty good...only one thing...I want someone in my life that likes and feels the same way. I have a lot of life left to live. Now this does not mean I am a rush to run out and get a LTR....I would prefer to meet someone...spend time getting to know them and enjoying each others company...and before you know it...we have built a relationship. I have enough scheduled things in my life...I don't want to schedule the only thing that really makes a person feel light hearted and on a high that is not drug educed. I started smoking when my husband passed away and I probably drink too much as well ...I am neither a gym rat...nor do I weigh 100 lbs soaking wet. I am a woman and proud to be one! I realize this may come as of a shock to most of you that would have even read through this ad to get to this point I do not find BS worth my time or yours. Please know that I have control over what I allow in my life and those who are in it...and so do you and I have a theory about why there are so many divorces...people say they want honesty but really they are not honest with themselves. If you want real...then by all means be real in your thoughts...makes perfect since to me... Well I hope you enjoyed the read and I also have discovered why people ask for photos...lol... not to hurt anyone’s feelings but let’s be honest...there must be mutual attraction. It's cool to say you like someone for their mind...but really you are we kidding with that... so send me a pic I will send you one of me... I wish you success in finding what ever it is you’re looking for... :-)

Deathwish Night at Tracks 25yr (Dumont, 7628, NJ , Hudson Valley)
I know it is very last minute but tomorrow at Track's night club is Deathwish night. Its an industrial music night, and if you do not like industrial music then please do not reply its only five bucks. I will not be dressing up super club like but I will be nice enough, so if you want to go and do not mind that I will need a ride there because I do not drive, that would be awesome. I am 25 year old girl, in southeast denver. etc. If you want to go, email me. Thanks.

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!!!!! STOP !!!!! 36yr (Dumont, 7628 , Bergen County)
I would like to start by saying good morning. I am a single white female, 36 years old with a few extra lbs. I am looking for a man who is close in age so that we share things in common. I am a beautiful plus sized woman that looks nice and smells even better. I have a great job and my own place. I love tall men with confidence. Jealousy is not attractive. I am also looking for a man with a positive out look on life. Happy go lucky type of guy. I have no room for negativity. I have worked hard to get to where I am at in life and the only thing missing is that special someone to share it with. I am out going and love to do all kinds of stuff. I'm allways down to try some thing new. I hope to hear from you soon and hope you all have a wonderful safe week end!

Looking for honesty 30yr (7628, Dumont, NJ, Bergen County)
Hi I am a 30 year old woman looking for someone honest, hardworking, loving maybe I am seeking an affair for too much but somehow haven't found anything like that yet... I am givingg http://seeking-affair.com list a shot. :) please just be yourself. Single guys welcome :)



Where are you? 30yr (Dumont, New Jersey , Hudson Valley)
You say you want a real woman, yet... in almost all the descriptions I'm reading it's the same...skinny, long hair, big boobs; well that's Barbie so get over that. I'm looking for a real men who know what they want, welcome. I am a born and raised LA girl so all the crap about LA, not here babe. I grew up on the westside; I'm a HUGE Laker fan, I almost never miss an episode of Family Guy, El Tepeyac is probably my favorite Mexican food in LA, and I think Paradise Cove has the best place to sit on the beach and watch the sunset. A little more about me; I went to college in the Midwest, I'm applying to grad school right now so I am busy but not super crazy. I have a job I love so I can pay my bills but I might need some help moving in a few weeks lol. I love to dance, especially salsa; the observatory and the Getty are two of my favorite places to visit; and I love to cook. I read alot and I'm a movie nerd so I hope you like to watch them. I truly believe life is short so my guy loves life and isn't waiting for it to happen, but is out there doing it. If you like to laugh then we will get along great. Physically, I'm 5''7, Carmel Mocha skin which makes me a Black girl; dark brown hair, brown eyes, and I'll be honest, I was blessed with a chest women pay fortunes to possess:) . I will definitely send you a picture if you do the same and hurry up; I''m waiting for you!

Coffee/Drink tonight, Beach tomorrow? 51yr (7628, Dumont, New Jersey)
Fun, attractive, independent woman looking for a spontaneous fun, attractive, independent man to meet tonight and plan a beach day tomorrow. In order to click, please only respond if you fit the following: Male, employed, single, grown children okay, available, educated, easy going, self-confident, love the beach, love to laugh, between 50 and 60 yrs old , just looking to enjoy the day. You'll need to tell me seeking an affair about yourself in your first email, send a picture, be prepared to exchange phone numbers, plan to meet this evening. Looking forward to meeting you.

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Long term something... 29yr (Dumont, New Jersey , Hudson Valley)
I'm looking for something seeking an affair A man who wants to be with me every waking moment.. I want to fall head over heels in love.. I'm looking but can't seem to weed out the bad guys and the guys who can't commit. If you're looking for the same let me know maybe we can meet for drinks this weekend??