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Different Relationship 28yr (4002, Alfred, ME, York County)
As I get older I am so relieved that I didn’t get married right out of high school or college like many of my friends. So many of my friends as they passed their 30th year found themselves in relationships they didn’t want and were unhappy in. I feel a bit angry when they tell me that they’re jealous of my life. Jealous that I get to come home and do whatever I want because I don’t have a steady boyfriend, husband, or kids waiting for me. I’m angry because I want someone waiting for me when I get home other than my dog. I have for awhile now. I think most girls dream of a wedding right out of school, kids before 25 and happily ever after and I was no exception. I was an exception however that I didn’t marry the first guy that I got into a serious relationship with or popped the question. Luckily, I had the self-awareness to know before things got too permanent to see that the relationships I was in that were headed to the “next step” whatever that means, weren’t right for me or my partner. I don’t know if it’s pathetic to be single when you haven’t found what you’re looking for…someone you’re compatible with and wants the same things from life. I’ve seen too many people try and change people they were in love with and/or wait for them to “get it” and won’t pretend I didn’t fall victim to it myself. I’m sure most of you are familiar with Einstein’s quote “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” Again, I’ve done it. I get it. I just hope to never do it again. Which is why I’m here…wrapped in a blanket at my desk watching it snow while my dog cries at the door because I made the mistake of mentioning “dog park” before I was ready to go. I’ve exchanged a few correspondences with men on CL and will anticipate the “tell me a little bit about yourself” question. I am 29, single, and I live in Denver. I moved a few years ago from the East coast. Since I’ve been in Denver I have done a lot of moving within the city. I have never been married, I have been engaged before, and don’t have any children. I work a lot and sometimes I work long hours but can absolutely have time and can find more time to build a relationship. I have a variety of interests and keep my weekends fairly mellow. I am so busy and pulled in so many different directions during the week that on the weekends I prefer to go with the flow and just relax. I like being outside, riding when it’s nice, camping, fishing , read, and travel. I stay pretty true to the philosophy that I’ll try most things once and am willing to do just about anything as long as I’m with people I care about. I have a very small but close family and some amazing friends. My family is scattered on the Eastern seaboard and my friends are mostly all wives or soon to be wives and/or mothers so they’re not as available as they used to be. I spend as much time with them as I can. I haven’t and will not abandon my friends who are in different places in their lives but our time together has been less do to the nature and schedule of their new mother statuses. A man that would be a good match for me is tall , caring, educated , witty, and knows who he is. Someone who is over looking for someone to help them find themselves and can maintain their own individuality in a relationship while still becoming intimate in a relationship. Someone with a career who will understand sometimes after 14 hr days I just don’t want to get together. Someone who has never been married and doesn’t have kids. Again – I know this is not seen as a good thing by many, but I am hoping to experience both those things and at this point in my life I want to be the first wife and am not ready to be a mom. I know many men with children say they’re not looking for a mom for their kids, but if things do get serious I will be in a motherly situation with the kids. I certainly don’t want to disappear on the nights or weekends you have with them. There are many women out there looking for that situation. I’ve tried it and it hasn’t worked out. I will admit however, that if everything else was there I would try it again. Whoever that man is would have to understand my hesitation. Someone who likes to laugh at life and himself but doesn’t recognize that there are times and situations in our lives that need to be taken seriously. Someone who wants to travel and get out and see the world with me. Of course, I can and have gone alone, it’s just more fun to share it with someone. A man who is calm under pressure and emotionally stable. Someone who won’t go off the deep end if I break a glass or spill a glass of wine or don’t know what type or how much oil was put into my car at my last oil change. Lastly, someone who wants to embody some of those now “old fashioned” gender roles. Someone who is and wants to be a man in a relationship and wants a woman to be in one with. That doesn’t mean I indent to be barefoot and pregnant after marriage or be dragged in tot he bedroom by my hair to take orders. If you understand what I mean then I think we’re a good match already. Obviously, I’ve taken some time to share who I am and what I’m looking for with the gentlemen scanning ads on this chilly and wet evening, so if you respond, please do so with a thoughtful and genuine response? I don’t need a poem or a novel like the one I’ve written, but rather something that shows your read this and at least are at the beginning stages of understanding what I am saying. I wish you the best in finding what you’re looking for, whatever that may be.

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Dinner Date 35yr (Alfred, Maine , New England)
I'm classy, charismatic, and a great conversationalist. Ready to have a nice evening to include dinner, drinks, conversation, flirting, and . . . let's let the suspense build.

Bright, Feminine Woman seeks Brainy, Engaging Gent 47yr (Alfred, 4002 , York County)
Hello! This single, attractive, slim woman is looking for an intelligent and handsome man. While we may be in “mid-life,” there is nothing middle-aged about us! We are still looking great, have all our brain cells, and are active, spontaneous and adventurous. We’re both educated professionals, but busy lives have precluded us from connecting with the partner we’re seeking. We’re both tall and lean, and proud that the term “middle aged spread” does NOT apply to us! My Ideal: Someone who genuinely likes women and can be my best friend. Someone I can’t keep my hands off. Someone who keeps up with current events and loves talking about his interests. Someone curious about other cultures and countries and likes to travel. Someone who can appreciate an “at home” date with a special bottle of Cabernet Sauvignon … or a six pack of beer. Please do not be married, separated, living with your girlfriend, living with your ex, or otherwise rebounding or still entangled – legally or emotionally. Live in 650 area code. OK with me if you have kids. Non-smokers only! Please respond with photo. Serious replies only.

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BBW looking to make out.... 21yr (4002, ME, York County)
Hey like the post says I'm a BBW ... meaning I'm fat.. but pretty.. loooking to make out and maybe more.. .pic for pic..

Not Romancing a Stone 40yr (4002, Alfred, Maine)
Simple... Looking for a guy who is strong, mind and body , with time for attention and patience for the right moment. Must be not afraid to fall in love, but must expect passion only. Well educated, smart, successful and a seeking an affair that simple, huh? Replies with photos ONLY, please. Waiting to chat with you tonight...



Im a little more country than that.... 28yr (Alfred, 4002, ME , New England)
I thought I'd give this a try.... why the hell not right? reply with WHY NOT in subject to get past spam blocker I'd like a good country man.... :) gentleman.... I'm five foot five, 153lbs. What do I want? Something real... I don't smoke or do drugs, I drink socially, and I'm definetely country at heart. I'm not into the whole thug/grungy dirty boy/man look.... and if you do drugs or can't refrain from smoking in my face, then keeping moving :) I'd like someone who I can hang out with, who knows how to treat a lady, and who has their life together. I'm not looking to support someone, or have someone support me. I have one child and am still married. Please reply with some details about you, height, weight, etc.... appearance isn't everything, but an attraction needs to be there. :)

Applications Now Accepted 48yr (Alfred, Maine , New England)
Please submit your qualifications for the position of friend/lover, partner, long term companion. I am 5'5'' HWP, reddish/brown hair, blue eyes, arty, love photography among many things. Love a good seeking an affair a nice wine, and some better company. Someone who appreciates good sarcasm and dry wit is always a good thing. Married Republicans or Barbie seekers need not apply, , spending too much time with work and others and not myself, willing to give attention, caring, creative, intelligent, enigmatic at times, not very good at this description stuff, but I haven't been asked to wear a bag on my head in a long time.. I will consider all applications, pictures are acceptable, but please leave something to my imagination. Will also consider younger men but you must be over 30 and SINGLE.

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princess seeking a prince 56yr (4002, Alfred, ME)
I am a widow 56 yrs old white-caucasion-brown hair/hazel eyes few extra pounds, great sense of humor non smoker,non drinker,love to laugh-seeking ltr -marriage-no game players-serious replies only enjoy outdoor concerts seeking an affair the park,picnics,swimming boat rides,zoo,museums and family gatherings. i go to school tues-fri 6-10pm so weekends are my only time to date. live alone,no pets being my condo does not allow them but i do like cats. enjoy reading novels-favorte author James Patterson--last movie i saw was Oceans. please include a pic and how i can contact you. I am a very nice patient,easy going,fun loving person.