Seeking an affair in Mattoon, IL, 61938

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Sharing a Thought 37yr (Mattoon, Illinois , Wabash Valley)
Me and several friends were talking, both male and female and we've all used the internet to meet people. We drew several conclusions about the pictures exchanged and meeting the individuals themselves. ALL of us have experienced the same thing on both sides: People that have appeared very attractive in their photos were not nearly as attractive in person When we stepped away from our particular preference as far as a picture and decided to meet the person anyway, those that didn't look good in the pictures were very handsome or pretty in person. So between the 4 of us I decided to post this thought. If someone doesn't look how you would prefer in the picture you still may want to take a chance and meet them. Between the 4 of us we have met a lot of people and this has been the most common topic, ''They didn't match the picture at all!''. As long as a person isn't down right hideous in the picture meeting for a cup of coffee to talk may just lead to being pleasantly surprised. A friend of mine doesn't look good in his pictures at all but he's very handsome in the the flesh, it's spooky in a way just how attractive he is in person versus his photos. I've met some men that made my pulse race because of the picture. Came face to face with them and just shook my head in utter amazement at how they looked so good in the picture and not in real life. Just a thought and something you may want to consider in your future internet endeavors :) GO BLACKHAWKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Sexy black female seeks.......... 27yr (61938, IL, Coles County)
little about me: 5'3 135 Brown Skin Attractive In shape Outgoing Employed single drugs and disease free Respectful joyful Loving Good listener .Overall I'm a woman about principle, I'm no way like these video chicks, or wannabes. I have my own style and life. I don;t care for negative people, or people beliefs of me. I'm an outstanding citizen and looking for my one who will definitely have sparks. If you like what you hear please contact me. Please have a picture, as I will have one with the reply of your message.thanks and have a great day! * Location: Baltimore

Motorcycle Ride - w4m 27yr (61938, Mattoon, IL)
Hello there, and thanks for reading my ad.I am a 27 year old single woman living in Gresham and am searching for my match. I have seen lots of ads where it lists what someone wants in a mate/lover, but I do not have a list. I am looking for a caring individual, who is seeking the same. I am drawn to the rugged, blue jean clad working man. I love facial hair and thoughtful eyes.The man that I seek must have a healthy libido, and must enjoy a woman who has one as well. I was in a long relationship where that was not put as an important part of life, and I find this a very important aspect of who I am. The person sitting next to me on the max train or on the bus in the morning would not ever guess that I am the kind of woman who would want to keep you awake for hours at night, but I am.I am seeking a person to include me in some of his pastimes whatever those might be. I work to hard and am very responsible, but am needing someone to show me how to enjoy my time away from the office and learn some new things about myself. I want to become very good friends with this person and include him into my circle of friends.I am looking for someone around my age, but would not be adverse to talking with someone either younger to older who likes conversations with someone who has a definite opinion but is eager to listen to someone else's. Someone who loves movies...and loves music. I am drawn to country and enjoy even the older country stuff.Okay, are you out there?? Please tell me about where you are in life!! I will send a picture on request. Photo of you not necessarily required. I'm more interested in the person you are mentally, then physically.

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Somewhere Out There Right? 20yr (Mattoon, Illinois , Wabash Valley)
I am seeking an on going or long term benefactor friend relationship. Im 5 8 fit mature fun honest sensual well rounded cultured educated good sense of humor. Looking for someone who is willing to be exclusive and supportive. I seek to have a step above the average relationship like this and not just about the bedroom. I want something that's not just physical, but where we also have a sense of intimacy and connection. So I'd like to be able to go out to dinner or movies and such, and enjoy each other's company.Also someone who can help financially. Otherwise I think it would feel like a business relationship, and that doesn't seem like it would be fun I have goals this summer, and want someone who can help with that also. I would appreciate if you were mobile aslo. T shirt and jeans girl here. Im not ugly but i don't look like a super model so if that's what you're searching for sorry not here. So if you're interested and can fit the criteria give me a shout and we'll see what we can do for each other. Please send a picture age and location. Please be blunt about what you want as will i NO BS or GAMES THANKS.

Seeking A Friend First......LTR 52yr (61938, Mattoon, IL, Coles County)
Seeking Mr. Right. Hopefully start as friends to share activities like, dining out, day trips, enjoying the long summer days. I am seeking a long term relationship, not just dating. I am tall, slender, attractive and fun to be with. My ideal man is of course single, no shorter than 5 ft. 10, not overweight. No seeking an affair please. If you are a fun to be with guy, email me. If you have a photo, great, if not, we can share that later. Please be sincere and available. Thanks.



Who's with me? 23yr (Mattoon, 61938, IL , Wabash Valley)
So I'm at a point in my life where I have lost everything. I have no car, no job, nothing. It's pure freedom. I'm looking for another crazy soul to run away with me. Doesn't matter where, let's just pack up in your car and drive. We can live out of a car and stalk famous people in California, or maybe head to Seattle and start a coffee shop. I don't care, let's just fucking go!! I want someone who is impulsive, always see's the light at the end of the tunnel. Someone who can make a bad situation not so bad, and a good situation incredible. I'm looking for someone who has a lot of live in them and is craving to LIVE, someone who wants to get out of this working life and really embrace everything there is out there, all the unknown stuff. Someone who wants and adventure EVERY DAY!! Of course we'll have to take a few days to get to know each other, and I'll start this out.... I am in my early twenties, I think too much about life, and I've always wanted a crazy and exciting life. I'm very easy going, fun, I love making jokes... I disagree with the fact that you need to work for a living, I disagree with people who think the impossible can't be done. I believe in possibility and overcoming anything, and I know I am destined for greatness. If you think this sounds amazing, don't hesitate to email me back and get this thing going. Put a weird fact about yourself as the subject, and if you include a picture I'll send one back.

Delicious Thick Chocolate - w4m 24yr (61938, Mattoon, Illinois)
seeking NSA fun.. free only during the morning weekday. Do a good job and we can meet regularly. Sexy, plus sized thick chick with a great appetite for sex. Reply seeking an affair your AGE and LOCATION in subject line or I wont respond. Be prepared to submit photos and you will get mine.

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Any East Coast guys or Western Euros 39yr (Mattoon, 61938 , Coles County)
Hi Are there any East Coast guys who have relocated to Chicago out there? I am from Chicago but I love the East coast and the people and the great cities! I am an educated professional, great sense of humor, I play tennis and swim regularly, have been told I am attractive :), have traveled extensively, kind, loyal, passionate, very friendly, I have friends all over the world, can hold a conversation and respect others opinions, volunteer my time, would eventually like to do the marriage and family thing...but there is no rush. Please be COLLEGE EDUCATED, successful, a good guy, healthy emotionally seeking an affair physically, over 5'10''...and an educated professional. If you are a Western European....even better. I have a very European spirit and love the company of foreigners. Please send a pic so I know you are for real and I will respond with mine.