Seeking an affair in Oxnard, CA, 93030

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''I like to look for things no one else catches.'' 44yr (Oxnard, 93033 , Ventura County)
''I hate the way nobody ever looks at the road in old movies.'' East Bay woman, 44, recently separated from husband seeks smarty pants man, 35-50 who can dazzle her with his intelligence, quick wit, kindness, creativity, broad music knowledge, film buffing and way with words. I would like to hang out now and thenÖ play board games, cook in, watch movies in or out, go to concerts and museums, go on road trips, take walks and have picnics, preferably on the beach as the sun is setting. Yes. I am a romantic. I am also a pragmatist and am not looking for any drama, clingy, demanding men or random one-off sexual encounters. I am also not looking to jump into a serious relationship right now and I have no interest whatsoever in getting married again in this life. While I consider myself a spiritual person, my tolerance for rabid God worshippers in my close circle is near nil. Iíd like to get to know someone by hanging out a bit. If we enjoy each otherís company and have physical chemistry, we can consider going from there. I donít have any children and donít plan on having any. I am 420 friendly, drink red wine regularly, cocktails very occasionally and smoke those clove and tobacco cigar things a few times a day. I love films and music and am very affectionate and giving. I am not the jealous or clingy type but I do like affection and cuddling and attentiveness when I am spending time with someone. People tell me I am very pretty, sweet, funny, organized, intelligent, fun, creative, kind, a good cook and an excellent communicator. I am far from perfect, as everyone is, and while I live my life wrapped in love, I can be very demanding in some areas, especially the communication arena. If you are not a clear and direct communicator who addresses the elephant as it walks through the doorway, we are likely not going to be a good match so letís not waste our time. If youíve read this far and are interested in striking up a correspondence to feel each other out, please send me an email. Iíd love to hear about what you love and what you are looking for. And your photo gets mine if I think it makes sense for us to get to know each other.

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Thick big BBW for drinks and smoke 27yr (93030, Oxnard, CA, Ventura County)
The title pretty much says it all...... I travel a lot for work so it's hard to meet like-minded people, not always in town but when I am would like to meet someone chill and laid back to hang out, drink/ 420 on a regular and then see what happens, if we click great, if not, then would be nice to have good company.... ....... hit me up and let me know what's up....... NO PICS, NO RESPONSE FOR PRIVACY AND SAFETY REASONS !

seeking a good friend 19yr (93035, CA, Ventura County)
I'm a thick young lady who's seeking friendship with the possbility of more. Not really looking to be in a serious relationship. Looking for some one I can tlk to or txt. There's to much to write so if your interested or wanna know more feel free to drop me a line or two. Your pic gets mine. And plz be btwn da age of 18-21

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Whoever Said ''Happily Ever After'' Wasnt Married 30yr (93033, Oxnard, California)
I am a 30-something married woman is searching for a spark, a connection, and passion that I am lacking in my married life. I am not looking to leave my situation at this point, but looking for something to enhance what I have at the present. Please don't response if you are looking for a one night stand. I am looking for friendship, companionship, and connection which will make everything else in life much more pleasant. Physically I am 5'10 tall, brown eyes, and dark hair with curves . I am in pretty good shape, fun, good natured, kind spirited gal who is passionate, intelligent, and funny. I enjoy all types of music but I would consider rock to be my favorite. I also love the outdoors and going to the gym. I am looking for a man who is missing the spark annd passion in his relationship. You should be honest, educated, have a sense of humor, affectionate, discreet down to earth, fun and friendly. I would prefer some one taller than me - and I like to wear heels. I only date men around my age. So basically a 30-something, over 6í tall, fit, educated guy who really appreciates a woman with curves. I am very attracted to men of color from tan to chocolate. If you are looking for someone to add fun, excitement and passion in your life and you are ready and bold enough to step out and meet someone new....get in touch and let's start something fun for both of us. Please respond with a pic and a brief description of yourself. No pic/description = No return reply. Thanks for reading.

Let it Be..Let it Be! 37yr (93030, seeking an affair CA)
''Clowns to the left of me..Jokers to the right..here I am..stuck in the middle again'' You guys KNOW that this line is about you CL guys! And here I am in the middle! What is a girl to do? I am in search of niether a clown or a joker! Possibly a hot male athlete who likes a women with an athletic body to hang out with! You know if you are hot or not....please be on the good looking side or you will be wasting your time. At the tail end of a divorce, so need a single guy...not that some of you married guys don't have it going on, but I am looking for fun and you have to be on call! HA!!! ''You know the phrase..''You can't always get what you want..so if you try sometimes..you just might find..you get what you need'' I'm sure some of you can imagine what I need! You have to know! I have quoted two songs! OK, I am 5''6, athletic, can talk like a sailor, have great thighs, great eyes, but I will never show you my smile until we are making out in the Costco parking lot! and I'm JUST KIDDING! ***One last thing under 5í10 or 215..donít respond..Iím not into shorties, skinnies, or fatties..I do like a man with some meat on his bones, but not a LARGE amount! NO FREAKS OR PSYCHOS PLEASE...can't handle you and don't want you! Lets see what you got. Witty responses, pictures and men with thick necks go to the front of the line!



Petite Red Head 29yr (Oxnard, 93030, CA )
I am a 29 yr old single mom. I am also a nurse. I have my head on straight and I know exactly what I want and what I dont want. I am 5'3 135 Dark Red Hair, green eyes. I am very out-going, I love theme parks, going to movies, and dinners, but I also love to stay home and cuddle in bed and watch movies. I am very traditional in the sense that I love to take care of my man and family. I believe that a woman should cook, clean, take care of the house, the kids, her man. So that way when my man comes homes from work he doesnt have to deal w the stresses of home ontop of work. Although I do believe the man should take care of the maintenance issues around the house. At the same time I present myself as a woman with class in public, I am not against hand holding, public displays of affection, or kissing. And I have been known to be a lil adverturous from time to time. But in private I love wearing lingerie and pleasing my man. Cause I have learned early on that if you dont please your man, and keep him happy someone else will. I am very down to earth and obviously not shy. I am extremely loyal and I have NEVER cheated in my life. I am like the female version of the ''nice guy finishing last''. So with all that said. If you want to get to know me better send me an email and we can see where things go. Please send a pic as well. And yes I am a real. I dont mind if you have kids. I do not smoke, rarely drink, and no drugs. I am looking for a man anywhere between 25-45. I prefer taller men 5'10. And I am open to any race. Hope you have a great week. Look forward to hearing from you soon.

Anxiously seeking...you? 45yr (Oxnard, California )
Seems pretty simple, but for some reason it's not. I'm looking for a SWM, 45-65, who knows how to treat a lady seeking an affair Been there and done the marriage thing, have a couple of kids that are grown and out of the house, I am gainfully employed and expect you are, too , and am pretty low maintenance. Would love to find someone who believe creativity and spontaneity are key components of life, is adventurous without feeling the need to go skydiving, and likes to laugh. I don't take myself too seriously, and I can pretty much find the humor in any situation. I woul dprefer that you live on the far north side or near north burbs as a short commute makes for more time to spend together, and be D/D free. Non-smokers are a plus!

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Currently...dating slowly only...Meet in a public place NO EXCEPTIONS! 40yr (Oxnard, California )
Seeking someone looking for a forever friend. I am in search of my best friend and lover. PUT: ''Best Friend'' in the subject line! Won't take it to the next level unless I feel that there is a solid friendship first. About me: Caucasian 5'4'' height/weight proportionate Like pretty much everything and anything that keeps me busy and moving. Don't mind winding down a few nights a week, but I enjoy going out and LIVING!!! Not a home body! About you: Caucasian preferred over 5'10'' must be professional/have car/well mannered and groomed humorous a plus carry on a conversation til the wee hours of the night Preference to a man with big boat! I love the water!!!! Looking for a guy who let's me know he wants to be with me and ONLY me. I believe in monogamy! To all you cheating men out there who think you are sneaky. We know! Some women just keep their mouths shut and are stupid for doing so, others walk away and won't play! Currently dating one guy, but not a serious relationship at this time and he is aware of that and aware of my ad remaining on here. Hypothetical question and bonus points seeking an affair anyone who can answer this question with a remotely favorable logical reason! You meet someone and things are going well, there is amazing attraction between the two of you , so you take it to the next level and it becomes intimate and the physical chemistry is amazing , do you want to continue searching for someone else or do you try to continue the relationship and see if there is substance in the personality beyond the original physical attraction with that person? If you are looking for just a fcuk move on, don't waste my time as you most certainly will waste yours.