Seeking an affair in National City, CA, 91950

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Too much to ask 36yr (91950, CA, San Diego County)
Call me crazy but I think if you are seeing someone and you are on the phone with that person it isn't too much to ask that you not hit on another woman mid-conversation with me. Is it too much to ask you not to say you love me until you mean it. Is it too much to ask to not talk about the future together until there is a present. If you feel these are unreal expectations then you are not the guy for me but if these things ring bells then we may have something in common. If you like sincerity and grace and you want someone to be your hero I may want to get to know you better. If you like to take time to develop intimacy instead of rush into it headlong and burn out any chance of a flame before you light the match then we may have something to talk about. If you don't copy and paste your stock response to every women on http://seeking-affair.com list but take the time to actually read my words and feel inspired enough to be genuine with me it will go a long way. If your response is one line that reads you got a pic I will not respond however if you would like to see a pic I have no problem sending it if you also take the time to give me some background on what you are looking for. I am looking for one man to be in my life and share adventures with. I am a sensitive, sensual, emotional, caring, inspired, artistic, creative, confused, curious, sometimes lonely but never alone, animal lover, non-smoking, no kids but it is not a deal-breaker if you are a Dad, mature yet very playful and mischievous at times woman who believes in fate and destiny and would like someone to make magic with. I prefer someone closer to my age but I will not rule out an older man if there enough commonalities. I am a democrat... you cannot change my mind but I enjoy spirited debate. I think that gay people should be allowed to marry each other in front of the God that I believe in. I think caffeine is bad for you but I like chocolate. I think that people who abuse animals will spend eternity in hell. I would rather see a movie than a ballet but I would rather see a play than a movie. I like long drives, I like being spontaneous when I can plan it! Most of all I like consistency in action and intent.

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If you are tall, read this... 30yr (National City, 91950, CA )
I like tall men, simple as that. It is a beautiful Friday outside after some nasty rain this week. I am so ready for the weekend. I want to meet a cute, funny & witty man who is over six foot tall. I find that I am always attracted to a tall guy that can make me laugh. Could this be you? Send me a message. I am a 30 yo white female, who is cute, but short and can make you laugh as well. With me you will find interesting conversation and more. Some words to describe me are sincere, genuine, courageous, unique, blunt and caring. I like dogs and hate cats. Prefer the beach over snow but I love cold weather . Looking for friends first and see what happens from there. I am seeking a long term relationship, I am just wanting to be careful about who I enter into one with next. Chemistry presents itself within a few minutes of knowing someone I believe. You feel the spark and a kiss can ignite the fire. Not looking for a one-night stand, that is not me. I want more from someone and more out of life. Anything else you want to know about me, just ask.

Musician seeks Musician - w4m 35yr (91950, National City, CA)
Mandolin player wishes to meet a string musician. Iím a 35 years young woman who likes to play old time fiddle music on the mandolin. Seeking a Portland man in his 60s or early 70s who maybe plays guitar for a loving, long term relationship. I live near E. Burnside in Portland. We are non smokers, occasional or non-drinker, clean and meticulous of our personal and dental hygiene. We are polite and build each other up -- no mean teasing or put downs. Casual dress okay -- I wear slacks/jeans most of the time, but like to dress real nice for theatre openings, concerts, etc. Iím 5í10Ē tall, have a Masterís degree, like to do Nature walks, I watch my weight, have brown hair with some gray, green eyes. Prefer a man who has a car with a good driving record, and also rides trimet. I like to jam Ė do you? Must like cats , no dogs.

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In search of a Gentleman 29yr (National City, 91950 , San Diego County)
So I have never posted on here before so I will try this. I have been on dates and had a lot of fun, but I can not seem to find what I am looking for. I would like to meet someone who can compliment me as well as I can compliment them. Here are a few requirements and I will tell you about me: I prefer a tall SWM who is stable and doesn't have ex drama and knows how to have a good time as well as being a gentleman. If you know the term ''ROSES'' please keep looking If you do not take care of yourself than I most likely won't be attracted. Please know what honesty and integrity mean and know how to apply them Final would be please be attractive as I am and am looking for someone who is Myself. I am 5'9 125lbs I have brown hair and eyes. I am well educated and finishing school. I am honest to a fault and I love to laugh and have fun doing whatever. I believe it is the company you keep that makes it. I love the outdoors and I love to get out once in a while and relax over a drink. I will not disclose all so if you want to know more just ask. I would appreciate a picture when responding but it is not a requirement. I have not attached one of myself due to keeping my privacy. If you like what you have read than I will hear from you. If not than have a good day and good luck......

Embarrassed But In Need 35yr (91950, National City, California)
I'm a 35 year old single,white,educated female that is in need of getting my oil changed,AC charged, and tires rotated. My ex husband cleaned out our joint bank account and last I heard bolted to Mexico. I truly need some help as it is already ''Africa hot''...I have no family I can turn too.I'm just trying to make it the honest way.I would be happy to dine out with you,spend some quality time,laughing, talking at a safe place for both of us. I am not asking for cash...If seeking an affair could help I promise I will someday pay it forward as well.. Thank You and have a great holiday



Last Dance with Mary Jane 52yr (National City, California )
Well my first posting was awful. The e mails I waded through last night were depressing. Aren't there any nice guys on CL at all? So I'm going to try it one more time and be a bit more specific about me and what I expect. First - I am a bit shy with strangers so sending pictures of your ''endowments'' isn't required. If you are young - under 50, I will not reply. I am neither a teacher, mother or cougar figure. I like an age range of 50-60. If we do have a date, I do not want to listen to stories about your medical history and how unstable you are since your last relationship ended. Also, I am not a caregiver and don't want to be with someone who is three minutes away from stroking out and being my next full time job. I don't like men who play games. I don't like being jerked around, even on e mail. I want to see your picture if you reply. If your e mail without a photo I'll spam it. If I am not even remotely attracted to your photo, I will not reply. To the usual crowd that replies to every ad - skip this one. I'll recognize your address and dump it. About me...extremely intelligent, perfect size 12, never married, no kids and manageable, temporary baggage. I have pictures and I'll send them if I am interested.

Looking For A Nice Man 32yr (National City, California )
HELLO YOU SINGLE MEN !!! I AM ONLY INTRESTED IN LIGH-SKINNED LATINO AND WHITE GUYS ONLY !!! I am an American/ Bahamian female who loves to cook, who is outgoing, loves to cuddle at home watching movies. I am faithful, funny, caring, loving, respectful, and very affectionate! I love to walk on the beach at night, like to bowl, go out to dinner. Anything that is fun, and I love to make people laugh and have a good time. I am not a Gold Digger, I dont lie, or play games. I know what I want ! I am very independent!! I have my own things !!! I am 5' 3 and thick seeking an affair SO If you don't extra meat on a female don't even bother emailing me ! I love kids so if you have kids of your own that is very cool with me , and I am not looking for men who wants a booty call cause that ain't going to happen and you won't be able to get it LOL So if your serious about getting to know a real chick and who will treat you with respect then email me !! Please attach a picture !!!

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A STRONG MAN FOR A STRONG WOMAN... 47yr (91950, National City, CA, San Diego County)
I am searching for a strong man who can handle a woman with a strong personality. Someone who understands where the persons head is at when they behave like a total and complete brat. You would take control and give me a good spanking. Not back down and be assertive. Know who you are and be able to handle who I am, a high powered executive who needs to be treated like a little girl at times and a woman seeking an affair other times. I'm really serious about this part please do not send naked photos of yourself as I will delete them immediately, and if you are just going to be nasty dont bother answering me either, also please be between the ages of 38 to 48, give or take a year or two, a non-smoker, no married men, d/d free and be willing to prove it as I am willing to prove it also. I ask that you send a photo and i'll respond with the same. I will answer all responses... I'm waiting for your response, tell me all about what you would do and how you would take care of me and how I would take care of your needs as well. Oh and by the way I am a BBW, so if this bothers you, please dont answer my posting. Thanks. Good Luck to all. Hope to hear from you shortly.