Seeking an affair in Fremont, CA, 94536

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start of a relationship? (Fremont, 94538 , Alameda County)
i have posted on here before, but nothing ever really works the way i would like. here is my pic. i want one from you in return. im not looking to just be a booty call or friend with benefits. fun, outgoing, down for anything, funny, fit, and good looking. ill email you more.

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Mature Plus Size Lady seeking man who also wants a LTR. ) (Fremont, California , Bay Area| Contra Costa)
Why is it so difficult to find someone in this day and age? Im an honest, hardworking Mature 51, SWF with a full time job, my own house and car. Just trying to find same in a man... Mid 40's - mid 50's. Race is not an issue. I'm not asking for the world just a fun loving, honest and very funny guy Is that to much to ask for, really??? LOL Hope to hear from ''the one'' :-)

Romance sought 40yr (Fremont, 94538, CA , Bay Area| Contra Costa)
Where to find romance and someone to share. Disenchanted lady tried with the strange relationships people are willing to settle for. Tall non barbie type searching for a tall charasmic man to enjoy the warmer weather with.

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The City 20yr (94538, Fremont, CA, Alameda County)
I just want to have some fun. Run around the city. Do outlandish things. Maybe make out a bit. And get to know someone pretty cool. E-mail me with a picture and something about yourself. We'll take it from there.

In the Meantime 38yr (Fremont, California , Bay Area| Contra Costa)
I am a college-educated, caucasian woman looking for seeking an affair cool, sane guy in his mid-thirties to mid-forties for an ongoing casual but monogamous sexual relationship. I never thought I would be posting for such on http://seeking-affair.com list but ... Why? Well, I am not interested in settling for a mediocre relationship just to ensure “getting it” regularly. But at the same time, I don’t feel I should deprive myself of indulging in what can be an amazing experience when the chemistry is right. I am a very “real” person looking for the same. I can hold a conversation, love to laugh, am very playful and affectionate. I will be attending grad school this fall . You wouldn’t be embarrassed to be seen with me in public. ;) I am attractive, but not in a “marina girl” way. Fair skin, long, light brown hair and light eyes. 5’7” / size 8. Please be a bit taller/ bigger than me, fit and masculine . However, I am not looking for “Mr. Perfect” . I am rarely attracted to men who wear pleated Dockers or the like. You are drama, drug, and disease free and looking for the same type of arrangement. Please live in San Francisco. It is much more convenient. You must be single! Ideally, we would meet up a couple of times a week for a few hours with possible overnights. You must be a giving and receptive partner who is very willing to please and indulge me. I will do the same. I want an experience with a particular sexual dynamic so chemistry is key. I am seeking a respectful and mature arrangement. If you think we might be looking for the same thing, I hope to hear from you. If you send me an explicit email or photo, I will not respond! ***Please include a photo. I am just interested in getting a sense of your personal style and build. If you are worried about maintaining your anonymity, close your eyes in the pic.



ARE YOU MAN ENOUGH TO HANDLE THIS SBF “TOTAL PACKAGE” & BE MONOGAMOUS? 41yr (94536, Fremont, CA)
Yes, I’m the total package. And although I know most people who post a http://seeking-affair.com list personal ad are only looking for easy sex and kinky hookups, that is NOT what I want. I am looking for a meaningful, long-term loving, monogamous relationship with a man who is fun-loving, honest, friendly, and intelligent. I am 41 , black Caribbean-American, straight, single, no kids, 5’5”, slender build, with a very pretty face and gorgeous long black hair. Everything on my body is 100% real and all mine, and I’ve never had Botox or plastic surgery. I am completely healthy in every way, I have no STDs, and I’m a non-smoker. I don’t do drugs, and I am a very light drinker. The man I want must also be healthy, disease-free, and a non-smoker who does not do drugs, occasionally drinks , and is into clean, healthy living. I am not and have never been a “booty call,” “secret lover” or a “friend with benefits.” Any man I choose to have sex with has to be proud to be described as my “boyfriend” or “significant other,” and he has to be open about our relationship with the loved ones in his life. I will only have sex with a man who will be monogamous with me. If that’s not what you want, then don’t bother reading any further. Why am I the total package? I’m constantly being told I’m beautiful. If you’re out in public with me, you have to be secure enough to handle the fact that men will stare at me and try to flirt with me. I have been told that I look like Janet Jackson , Michelle Williams from Destiny’s Child, Garcelle Beauvais-Nilon, Holly Robinson Peete and Gabrielle Union. I am NOT a look-alike for any of these women, but I can see a slight resemblance in some of the physical characteristics that they have. I’m highly intelligent , I’m a homeowner, and I come from a great family. I’m confident, sexy, funny, and loyal – and any man I date has to be the same. When I’m in love, I treat my man like a king. A lot of women have standards for what they want in a man, but they don't have the guts to say what they want up front. I am not like those women, because I don't want to waste your time or my time playing guessing games. If you can't handle my directness, you are not the one for me. If you are too secretive or self-absorbed or insecure about who you are when you are dating someone, you are not the one for me. Get ready, because I'm about to be very direct. Here is what I am looking for in a man: AGE: I’m open to dating men whose ages range from 25 to 50. If you are in your 20s and 30s, you must have no hang-ups about dating a hot “cougar” who looks like she’s in her late 20s. People are always shocked when they find out my age because I look and act much younger than my real age. Unlike a lot of women, I do not lie about my age if people ask, and any man who’s with me shouldn’t expect me to lie about my age. HEIGHT: I am 5’5,” and as long as you are taller than I am, I’m okay with that. I will not date men 5’5” or shorter. This is non-negotiable. WEIGHT: I do not date overweight men and I don’t get involved with men who have food issues. Any other body type except overweight is fine with me. I am comfortable with my slender body and I don’t want a man who will monitor/criticize what I eat, because I eat what I want. RACE: I am black and open to dating other races. If you aren’t black, then you, your close friends and family must be okay with you dating a black woman. I will not date someone whose loved ones or friends are racists. I will not date anyone who thinks it’s okay to say the “n” word. EVER. BACKGROUND: I come from a great, tight-knit family, and I prefer that you also be close with your family. I do not date men with prison/arrest records or are involved in illegal activities. I do not date men with addiction issues. I do not date men with bad credit or who are financially irresponsible. I have none of these problems and I don’t want a man who does. This is non-negotiable. Don’t even try to lie about these things with me, because I will find out if you’re lying and I’ll kick you to the curb if you lie about who you are. MARITAL STATUS AND KIDS: I only date men who are TOTALLY SINGLE – no wife, no serious girlfriend. I prefer to date men who have never been married. I will date someone who is divorced or is a widower, but I will NOT date men who have been married more than once. That’s too much baggage for me. I want a man who currently has no kids or stepchildren, but sees himself getting married and having kids within the next three to four years. Even if you have a child who doesn’t live with you, I still won’t be interested in dating you. When I say I want a man with no kids or stepchildren, I really mean it. This is non-negotiable for me. LIVING SITUATION: I do not date men who still live with their parents or their ex-wife or ex-girlfriend. I prefer a man who lives alone, but if you have a platonic roommate situation, that’s okay with me. I don’t care if you rent or own your home, as long as you pay your bills on time, like I do. I live in Manhattan, and would prefer to date men who live in New York City or within 30 miles of NYC. If you live outside NYC, you must be willing to spend a lot of time in Manhattan. RELIGION: I am a Christian and I prefer men who are also Christian, but I’m flexible on what religion you may be, as long as you believe in God or a higher power. You do not have to be a regular churchgoer, but you must be spiritual. I do not want a man who is atheist or a religious fanatic. EDUCATION AND CAREER: You must have a minimum of a high-school degree or a GED. I graduated from two prominent universities, and you must be okay with that if you are less educated than I am. I do not date unemployed men. I’m open to dating men from any income bracket, as long as you are employed part-time or full-time, preferably doing something you love. I am not and never have been a “sugar mama.” You have to be able to pay your own bills. SOCIAL INTERESTS: My main leisure activities involve entertainment such as movies, music, TV, books and theater. I prefer those to be your main leisure interests too. I am not into athletic/outdoor/gym activities, but I don’t mind if you are. Just don’t expect me to do any sports with you , because I’m not into that at all. I will occasionally go to sports games and watch them on TV, but I have no interest in playing sports. LOOKS/SEX APPEAL: The celebrities I find sexy include Johnny Depp, Maxwell, Orlando Bloom, Ewan McGregor, Denzel Washington, Keanu Reeves and Antonio Banderas. You don’t have to be handsome or look like a celebrity in order for me to think you're sexy, but if you’re atrociously ugly, I won’t be attracted to you. And I can’t emphasize this enough: Confidence, intelligence, kindness, and honesty go a long way with me. If you fall short on any of these qualities, I won’t think you’re sexy. SEXUAL ORIENTATION/PREFERENCES: Straight men only. No bisexual/bi-curious men, trannies, cross-dressers or closeted gays. And let me say this up front: I know how to please a man immensely and I’m fairly open-minded, but I am not into sex that involves someone other than my adult partner. In other words, I’m not into threesomes, orgies, jailbait or animals. I’m only into things that involve two consenting heterosexual adults – except for S&M and “bathroom activities.” I say all of this because I know there are many perverts on http://seeking-affair.com list and I don’t want a man who’s into deviant sexual activity. PHOTOS: Send me a CURRENT photo, and I will send you my photo only if I think I might want to date you. Shirtless photos are okay , but please do not send me photos showing your naked private parts! I will never send anyone naked photos of me, so don’t even ask. If you’re the type of person who sends or posts naked/pornographic photos of yourself for strangers on the Internet to see, don’t bother replying because I don’t want to be with a man like that. Last but not least, if you are honest with me and have the qualities I want, you have a chance with me and you’ll probably get the best girlfriend you’ll ever have. If you lie about any of my “deal breaker” qualities, I will dump you and cut off all contact with you. If you’re evasive about simple questions about who you are before we even meet in person, then I definitely won’t be interested in you, because you obviously have something to hide. I don’t waste my time with liars, creeps and losers. So if you think you’re the “total package” for me and are willing to prove it, and if you’re man enough to handle everything I have to offer, then I’m worth it.

Scruffy, shaggy, jeans, and tshirts? 31yr (94536, Fremont, California)
I'm looking for a casual guy who can adapt to his surroundings. I'm not talking about a slob or someone who is embarrassingly out of place, but one who knows how to blend in while retaining his quirky edge. Clearly this is no easy feat and requires intellect, social aptitude, and confidence. I like to think that I possess these same qualities. Together we'll be the talk of the town. I see us mingling with the artsy crowd at gallery openings, playing scrabble at home in our undies, star gazing at the observatory, and throwing down on the dancefloor whether it be snoop dogg or seeking an affair idol on the speakers. If you think you fit the bill, send me a note that will capture my attention. A photo would be nice too.

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I am looking for Mr.serious 31yr (94555, CA, Alameda County)
I am pretty woman single, looking for serious man who ready to support me. I live here for long time, but unfortunately the things doesnt work my way.I am really have hard situation in my life thats why I am looking for a man who is ready to support me and I will be able seeking an affair move into his apartment. Its just temporary hard situation. You must be white , single and healthy. Please respond if you really serious about to meet nice woman. You do not need silly games